How can we cure my gf’s fear of penis?
My girffriend is afraid of penis, seeing it, touching it, having anything to do with penis. She does not suffer from panic attacks or dizziness or anything like that. We both want to take are relationship to a new level and try something like an hj or bj, but it is very difficult to do so with her fear. Help please by giving some advice or some of your own experiences. We’re both seniors in high school.
We’ve been dating for 2 years
Just try to be as understanding as you can… If she will allow you to touch her and make her feel good, maybe you can make her understand that how that made her feel, it would be like the same thing to you if she was to do that… do you understand where I’m coming from??? Just take your time and be sure to talk about it when all else fails… I just a little unsure of myself the first few times I saw my boyfriend’s, but I just relaxed and it all pasted with time…
I hope this helps
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Comment from cesar
Time January 7, 2010 at 1:43 pm
i would think its one of those things she just has to get over…just touch and see for herself..
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Comment from Mrs.Noodles
Time January 7, 2010 at 2:02 pm
Maybe it should have a cute, non-threatening, silly sounding nickname.
like Barako Bama or Hello Kitty.
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Comment from Airee
Time January 7, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Is she a virgin?
I’m a virgin and would be completley embarassed to see a guys penis.
How long have you two been dating?
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Comment from _DaZeD_
Time January 7, 2010 at 3:31 pm
hahaha im gonna go with the cute nickname idea just use your name and put a jr on the end GUARANTEED!
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Comment from Alexis
Time January 7, 2010 at 3:56 pm
Phallophobia
Have her get to know a vibrator and Develop enough courage to pat one… and work your way along from there.
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Comment from WELL ALL RIGHT BOOGIE
Time January 7, 2010 at 4:20 pm
come on now. Make it fun for her to know (insert name). Introduce him slowly and gradually to her eyes first and then to her hands go slow it might take a while, but you have been together a while so you wont mind as long as you get great results. Make a game of touch. Have you tried the tantra techniques they focus more on the connection than on the body parts. this might help her relax. Keepo telling her he is a friend not a foe. Make it comforting for her. It will take time. But it is sooooo possible. If all else fails she can go to a sex therapist. Vibrators, toys, and sometimes just pictures movies, will help. in conjunction with your guidance.
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Comment from keep moving forward…
Time January 7, 2010 at 4:27 pm
Just try to be as understanding as you can… If she will allow you to touch her and make her feel good, maybe you can make her understand that how that made her feel, it would be like the same thing to you if she was to do that… do you understand where I’m coming from??? Just take your time and be sure to talk about it when all else fails… I just a little unsure of myself the first few times I saw my boyfriend’s, but I just relaxed and it all pasted with time…
I hope this helps
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Comment from Lúta
Time January 7, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Just pull your pants down when you are in the room together. Sit in a position that allows her the best access. Put on a movie or something so all the focus doesn’t feel like it’s aimed at your dick. Tell her that she can touch it all she wants in what ever manner. You did that when you were growing up to get used to it, so why can’t she. She’ll get over her fear.
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Comment from Scott P
Time January 7, 2010 at 4:52 pm
she is really not afraid of penis. she is afraid to touch YOUR penis. she doesn’t have this problem with any other penis.
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Comment from [706]
Time January 7, 2010 at 5:21 pm
is she a lesbian?
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Comment from Michael B
Time January 7, 2010 at 5:44 pm
she has probably not hit puberty yet… or she is using you as a cover up… yannno leesssboooo
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Comment from Stewie G
Time January 7, 2010 at 1:04 pm
tie her down and work away
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