Sex on Ambien….is this OK?
I have a serious sleep disorder (sleep paralysis and panic attacks while falling asleep) and have been taking Ambien for the last 5 years. Apparently my husband has sex with me alot, but I don’t remember a thing about it! I have asked him not to do it, because it makes me a little uncomfortable with the thought of doing something that I can’t remember, but he keeps doing it anyway. He always tells me that he thought I was awake, and that I really enjoyed it, but still….he knows I don’t remember it and I’ve asked MANY times for him to stop. Now, when I mention that it bothers me, he gets mad and says that I don’t love him or want him, etc. Just wanted to get some thoughts on this….what do you guys think about this situation? Also, we have had a tense marriage for the last couple of years. Alot of fighting and stuff. He now puts up wildlife cameras around in places to try to "watch" me and he gets into my email and phone log. I think he is paranoid and insecure. Just would like some thoughts…… Thanks.
Ambien will put you to sleep/ but it does not/ knock you out/ where you can’t remember/ anything /unless you are taking /more of this drug /which can lead to seizures/ how dare him/ take advantage/ of you /like you were just a piece of meat/ to him/ this is a highly addictive/ and dangerous drug /and 5 years/ is way to long /to be on this medication/ your sleep disorder needs attention /and what your husband is doing is very sad / take care of you/ and don’t let him abuse you like that/ as far as the camera/ he is lacking /in brains /and checking your email / he has no right to / what else is he doing when your sleeping??????????
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Comment from BLT
Time January 17, 2010 at 11:30 am
sounds liek you guys need a divorce!! dont stay there or kick him out if hes going to treat you like that! thats not right at all!
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Comment from answerqueen
Time January 17, 2010 at 11:39 am
Well first of all that is rape if yo have asked him to stop several times. As far as the cameras and such. Yup he’s very insecure of himself or he’s not trusting you. And if you don’t have trust then you do not have a relationship at all. You mentioned that you’ve had problems. So if he’s acting this way and raping you while you sleep then I suggest you look into a divorce maybe. I also take Ambien so I understand how you feel very well.
Best of luck
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Comment from DRAGON
Time January 17, 2010 at 12:27 pm
I was going to ask if the pills stuck to your back…but. That really is rape at its most basic definition. Maybe you should tape him and get some leverage.
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Comment from J.T.
Time January 17, 2010 at 12:54 pm
Sounds to me that your man is very insecure with himself,I mean why cant he make love to you when ur awake? This dude definatelly has some identity issues then,and is a bit psycho too! My man isn;t normal. No means no and if he’s checking up on you that much then he’s creeping behind ur back
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Comment from pixiegirl_1720
Time January 17, 2010 at 1:27 pm
Try talking to your doctor about it and see if he can switch you to something else. And for your husband tell him not to do it ie like have him ask you a question or a secret word so that he knows that your actually awake and for the tense marriage take a step back write a pros and cons list and decide if you should try and make it work or not. Yeah he is paranoid and insecure have him see a doctor or something maybe both of you should see a marriage Counselor to try and make it work
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Comment from gaston8291
Time January 17, 2010 at 2:02 pm
Married or not, you have the sole right to yuor body and what happens to it, no one, not a husband or anyone has the right to violate you. It sounds like your husband is very insecure and is manipulative and controlling of you. His deep seeded fear of losing you, keeps him controlling all your actions and even your sleep, his violation of you sleeping is his way of stripping you of your independence and pride, thus making you more dependent on him, and easier for him to manipulate you, I would definately get him some help or a one way ticket elsewhere, you don;t deserve this…..
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Comment from Natalie Portmans Shaved Head
Time January 17, 2010 at 2:51 pm
Whoa….this sounds like a very, very, VERY bad situation. Please seek counseling, and a counselor can direct you to further help. I don’t care if he’s your spouse – that is rape. And don’t even get me started on the cameras, which are beyond creepy. This is NOT normal behavior, and this is not acceptable no matter who the person is. Get help ASAP.
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Comment from *K*
Time January 17, 2010 at 3:35 pm
Ambien will put you to sleep/ but it does not/ knock you out/ where you can’t remember/ anything /unless you are taking /more of this drug /which can lead to seizures/ how dare him/ take advantage/ of you /like you were just a piece of meat/ to him/ this is a highly addictive/ and dangerous drug /and 5 years/ is way to long /to be on this medication/ your sleep disorder needs attention /and what your husband is doing is very sad / take care of you/ and don’t let him abuse you like that/ as far as the camera/ he is lacking /in brains /and checking your email / he has no right to / what else is he doing when your sleeping??????????
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Comment from Gabe
Time January 17, 2010 at 11:08 am
Well if you told him to stop and he keeps doing it thats a thing called rape…so you should probably be careful around him.
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